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For the past four days, I have been in Oxford, Mississippi. My son is participating in the Ole Miss Football Camp. He did well and garnered an MVP award at the safety position. That was good, but not why I have been so impressed with my experience here. This is my first visit to Oxford. (Please don’t be offended) I expected a backwater, cross burning, flag waving town of supremacist and separatists. What I knew of Oxford, Mississippi dealt mainly with the Civil Rights Movement when the governor at the time attempted to prevent James Meredith from integrating The University of Mississippi, after he won a federal court case for admittance. Riots broke out in protest of his admittance. Late on the evening of Sunday, September 30, 1962, in which two men, a French journalist sent to cover the events and a Lafayette County resident, were killed by stray bullets. President John F. Kennedy mobilized the Army and ordered them onto the campus and surrounding community early on the evening of the riot.  However, James Meredith enrolled that morning without incident and attended for the rest of the school year, graduating in August, 1963 with a degree in history. That is what I know, heard and remember about Oxford.

What I learned this week is, “Never, judge a movie by it ratings…Go see it!” I was thoroughly surprised by my experience in Oxford. First of all, the school was immaculate. It was a cornucopia of the old and new south. The campus was clean and security was very visible. Head Coach Houston Nutt, the Recruiting Director Coach Ealy and the rest of the coaching staff were exemplary. The facilities were breathtaking. The entire experience was awesome. However, the most impressive aspect of the Oxford experience was the people. They were polite, helpful and inviting. I ate lunch at one of the local eateries with one of the camper’s Father and Mother. They were white and of course I am black. I expected judgmental looks of disapproval, but what I received were greetings, and just good ole southern hospitality. I was pleasantly pleased by the reception I received. That is just one of my positive experiences here.

People need to know that Oxford has been named by USA Today as one of the top six college towns in the nation. It is included in The Best 100 Small Towns in America. Lafayette County consistently leads the state rankings in the lowest unemployment rate per quarter. Both Oxford city and Lafayette County school systems are consistently ranked as "5-star" systems; the highest rating available. I will admit, I was prejudiced toward Oxford, Mississippi. Prejudice simply means pre-judging an individual or situation before all the facts are known. I am guilty. But after further investigation, I find that the present city of Oxford, has been found not guilty of continuing its past. It is evident, we can all get along. My, how things have changed.

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irishoaks read my blog view my photos
Jun 13, 2008 | 8:37 AM

What a delightful post. I am glad you had such a good time. Positive experiences cheer the writer and the readers. Once again dear Pastor, you are an encourager.

bubbah read my blog
Jun 15, 2008 | 11:53 PM

It's sad that people haven't realized that "things changed" a long time ago and we are just now beginning to be willing to see it. I hope you preach your new message and invite large groups of people of other colors from other congregations to your services on a regular basis and I hope you attend when invited to services of congregations you might have been prejudice against and be open to see that things have indeed changed.
You are a learned man. You have a bully pulpit. There is one very important way to truly serve the Lord instead of bias or prejudice. To eliminate it's food from among your own flock.
You are uniquely qualified for this mission like no other by your own words in print. Get to it Jonah.

fdtappan read my blog
Jun 16, 2008 | 5:10 AM

Thx bubbah. We strive to be a multicultural congregation. To show how much things have changed, on April 14 I preached at Bellevue Baptist Church and last year, Fred Bennett, Pastor Emeritus of Christ The Rock Metro Church preached at our church. I thank God that The blood of Christ is activated by love, not color.

bubbah read my blog
Jun 16, 2008 | 8:37 PM

I believe we need to reach across Christianity, Buddism, Zoroastrianism, Islam and Judaism in all churches. If a religion thinks it "has it all" within one denomination it has misread the word of the Lord and that kind of thinking should be the first clue. Many ancient faiths have more to offer than they will ever promote. Most of that will occur first as open-heartedness and acceptance.
It will end up as something much larger for all.

bubbah read my blog
Jun 16, 2008 | 8:38 PM

And keep up the good work and encourage others to step up their efforts in Memphis.

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I am the Senior Pastor of the Eureka TrueVine Baptist Church. In my ten year tenure, the church has grown from 10 to approximately 300. My personal mantra is to,”Meet the needs of the people, right where they are”. The Church Motto is “Real Ministry, with a Real Message, for Real People”. Family, social service and youth ministries are the foundational ministries of the church. I completed my undergraduate work in Psychology from Christian Brothers University and Jacksonville Theological Seminary and my graduate work from Jacksonville Theological Seminary in Theology and the Harvard University, School of Divinity. I was the first Director of Academic and Vocational Training for The Memphis Job Corps Center, and held the position of Facility Manager and instructor with Memphis City Schools Adult Basic Education Program at Tri-State Training Center and with the Title-One Program at Tall Trees Juvenile Detention Center. I served as the Chaplain of the Shelby County Detention Center and also at the Jail East “Women’s Jail”. Along with my pastoral duties, I am currently an administrator with the Shelby County Department of Corrections with the Fatherhood/Healthy Relationships Program. My wife of 19 years, Regina and I have 2 children, Frederick 13 and Alexis 11. Together we head the Memphis Area Youth Association, which is a youth athletic and educational support program with an abstinence base.

Member Since: 6/20/2007